Flirting Tips Rules

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Flirt Rule 1
Flirting should be fun so don't take it too seriously. Mostly, you'll just flirt with someone for a short period of time and then maybe never talk to them again. If you always go in to flirting expecting to date or even marry the person you're flirting with, you're going to be extremely disappointed--and you'll probably seem a little desperate. Remember, you're just flirting, ok!
You need to look approachable, relaxed and smile. You can use your own body language to give the right signals showing you are a happy and fun person to be with. Don’t be nervous be confident.

Rule 2
You need to read the person’s body language. Do they appear interested in you? When you see someone with whom you might want to flirt, you should read his or her body language. Once you're actually flirting with the person, body language is often the only way to tell if the person is really interested in you. We all have an ability to read language, but it's also easy to misread signals, so be careful and take it real slow. If you see the signal that indicates this person is interested in you, watch for any other signals that might confirm that.

Rule 3
Making eye contact for a split second, an exchange of gazes is what you need. Do not stir! Chat with the person you're interested in. If you don't already know them then just make small talk. Perhaps the best way to strike up a conversation is to start with a simple observation which ends with an open question: "Which is the best bar in Manchester for RnB" or "Where do people go to eat" are just a couple examples. By doing this you will be inviting the person to chat. If they respond pleasantly, continue the conversation. If the person doesn't respond or seems preoccupied or disinterested, he or she probably isn't interested in flirting with you.

Rule 4
Start to share personal information in a reciprocal manner. The key to this is that you both gradually open up. Take turns talking, with each time the other person gives you some information about himself or herself, give similar information about yourself, and give slightly more personal information than they gave. The intimacy of the conversation will increase over time. You don't want to share too much about yourself too quickly, and you shouldn't try to get the other person to do so either.

Rule 5
Give them complete attention and laugh at their jokes and remember 2 ears one mouth! Listening is more important than speaking as we learn so much more when we listen. Ask open questions then shut up and listen. Be careful and respect their personal space. Remember some people do not like to be touched early in the process.
Rule 6
Close the Deal by asking them when you can see them again with a nice alternative close. ‘ So when will I see you again, through the week or is the weekend a best time’
Hey remember, if they ain’t interested then there are plenty of more singles out there waiting for you.

Good Luck!!!