Flirt using favourite Chat up line

We all have heard and many used chat up lines but which ones are your favourite. I prefer the funny ones, for instance ‘your like the gurkin in my Big Mac, I just have to take you out.’ I know what you’re thinking however it does tend to raise a smile at the very least and on occasions laugh.

Our flirt approach has changed somewhat over the years, some more confident and many of us less confident with the years not being as kind. It’s hard to apprehend how one will re act as everyone is different.
One way you could test the water is by having a plan B.. ‘Hey did you hurt yourself when you fell from the sky?’ she replies ‘Go away’ - Plan B ‘Sure, but can I just say the reason I asked is because your face looks like it’s been dropped on concrete’ hmmm maybe best not say that.

Regardless, Flirting is fun and chat up lines can break the ice, infact even the worst ones can sometimes prove to be successful. Have fun flirting.

Flirt Signs

We will all experience at some stage in our lives a bit of flirting whether you intend to or not. Flirting will play a big part in finding that special person to have a successful and lasting relationship, with that in mind it’s important to know how to flirt, and being able to recognise the flirting signs shown by other people. The flirt signs have a similarity for both men and women, having said this some will be more suited to men and others more suited to the women. Although some flirt signs will not be as obvious as others; some flirt signs maybe very subtle and sometimes you will miss them, therefore it is crucial you learn how to become aware when a woman is flirting with you, or the chance to embark on a perfect flirting opportunity could be missed. Remember that when a woman flirts with you, the signs are not just her brushing against you or the puckering of her lips, also look out for the other signs which may include the eye contact, smiling, flicking of the hair and laughing with you.

The flirt signs may occur in an assortment of forms including facial expressions, body language and the way she converses with you. A flirt sign can be as simple as a wink of the eye or the way you talk you may also not even realise that you are giving out these flirting signs.
A warm and friendly smile will be a major factor for what the women is looking for, so it’s imperative that you are smiling while you flirt. A warm and friendly smile will show that you are sociable and easily approachable. Your facial expressions can include many flirt signs such as winking, touching your face, running you fingers through your hair, making plenty of eye contact and the all important smile. Probably the most obvious flirt sign is the wink, being best used when you are across the room from your flirt subject. Although you may find that some women will find this tacky, while others will be flattered to receive a wink. The wink can be as effective as a friendly smile, although don’t be over doing it, as this may look like you have an eye problem. Another clear flirting sign is fixing your eyes on your flirt subject a little longer than usual. This will give you the opportunity to see if they are being responsive and looking back at you. But as with the wink make sure not to overdo it, otherwise you’re flirting expressions may look strange, they should only be used in moderation. Choose your flirt signs you feel most comfortable with. You may want to rehearse your flirting signs by looking in the mirror and try them out on yourself, even if you think you may look silly, practicing your flirt signs will give you more confidence with your flirt subjects.

It is also imperative that your posture is right, being as tall as possible while you flirt, this is important whether you are standing or sitting. A tall firm posture will show that you’re confident and will make you feel secure within yourself; this will also show off your masculinity. The way you move your body will give off many flirting signs, without you even noticing it. These may include; sitting facing your flirt subject with your legs open, leaning towards a your flirt subject while maintaining eye contact, touching your flirt subject hand/arm/shoulder/thigh, imitate the movement of their body, flirt by offering to place food in their mouth. If you want to carefully touch a woman you are flirting with on the arm, hand, shoulder or thigh, be sure to take care that she is comfortable with the fact you are doing it making sure not to overdo it, or she may become uncomfortable with you doing it. As with the same as your flirting facial expressions, use your body movements in moderation otherwise you may run the risk of appearing nervous and uncomfortable. As with your flirting facial expressions, select a few and practice them. The more you feel comfortable with your flirting techniques the more confident you will appear to the women.
While you are flirting with a woman, and its obvious she is feeling sexy, and also giving you lots of flirting signs either by pushing her breasts in your direction or exposing some flesh from her thighs, it is important to remember that she may only be flirting and not inevitably looking for a sexual partner. Sometimes the impression is given by both men and women that they are only after one thing, but this is not necessarily the case. Some people don’t even realise that they are taking the flirting a bit too far, so it’s important to usually be a little reserved at first, at least until you know the other person a little bit more.

The topics of your conversation should be what you are interested in and enjoy. It’s not advisable to go into deep conversations regarding subjects such as religion and politics, as long as you are both enjoying the topic of conversation it doesn’t really matter what you are talking about. While you are flirting with a woman it may be that you find yourself mimicking the tone and speed of her voice and find yourself laughing and being more amused than usual at what she says. You may be in the company of a group of people but being attracted to one woman, you may find yourself purposely aiming your questions at her. Or maybe you are the one being singled out and being flirted with by the women. The possibility may arise that you are laughing a bit more than usual at what the women is saying, try toning this down a little, otherwise you run the risk of her thinking you are not actually interested, or listening to what they are saying and the flirting moment may pass you by.
All in all to flirt is about finding the right balance, by the way you act towards the flirt signs and not completely going overboard and looking uninterested. It is also important to read the signs from the woman to whom you are flirting with. Whatever flirt signs you are choosing to use the best and most important thing you should be remembering is to have fun and be relaxed within the flirting situation. Remember the more practice you have with these flirt signs, the more relaxed and natural you will become flirting, which will hopefully produce more successful dates for you, or a loving relationship.

Bank Holiday Fun

Bank holiday Fun

Yes it’s the bank holiday weekend. The long weekend over the easter period that allows us to spend more time with our families and some quality free time to surf the web. No matter what your plans are, you know this is the ideal time to flirt. Most of us have that feel good factor and tend to be much more approachable too.

The sun is shining and hopefully it will shine all weekend, giving us a taste of summer in the UK. What are your plans this weekend? I will be chilling out in the garden, having cut and bagged the grass of course and listening to some hedkandi classics on my i pod. Then later on in the evening, I will be on Jaydiocity checking my messages.

Well, time to do some real work now so you guys enjoy flirty fun this weekend and Happy Easter to you.

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Flirting Tips Rules

Flirt Rule 1
Flirting should be fun so don't take it too seriously. Mostly, you'll just flirt with someone for a short period of time and then maybe never talk to them again. If you always go in to flirting expecting to date or even marry the person you're flirting with, you're going to be extremely disappointed--and you'll probably seem a little desperate. Remember, you're just flirting, ok!
You need to look approachable, relaxed and smile. You can use your own body language to give the right signals showing you are a happy and fun person to be with. Don’t be nervous be confident.

Rule 2
You need to read the person’s body language. Do they appear interested in you? When you see someone with whom you might want to flirt, you should read his or her body language. Once you're actually flirting with the person, body language is often the only way to tell if the person is really interested in you. We all have an ability to read language, but it's also easy to misread signals, so be careful and take it real slow. If you see the signal that indicates this person is interested in you, watch for any other signals that might confirm that.

Rule 3
Making eye contact for a split second, an exchange of gazes is what you need. Do not stir! Chat with the person you're interested in. If you don't already know them then just make small talk. Perhaps the best way to strike up a conversation is to start with a simple observation which ends with an open question: "Which is the best bar in Manchester for RnB" or "Where do people go to eat" are just a couple examples. By doing this you will be inviting the person to chat. If they respond pleasantly, continue the conversation. If the person doesn't respond or seems preoccupied or disinterested, he or she probably isn't interested in flirting with you.

Rule 4
Start to share personal information in a reciprocal manner. The key to this is that you both gradually open up. Take turns talking, with each time the other person gives you some information about himself or herself, give similar information about yourself, and give slightly more personal information than they gave. The intimacy of the conversation will increase over time. You don't want to share too much about yourself too quickly, and you shouldn't try to get the other person to do so either.

Rule 5
Give them complete attention and laugh at their jokes and remember 2 ears one mouth! Listening is more important than speaking as we learn so much more when we listen. Ask open questions then shut up and listen. Be careful and respect their personal space. Remember some people do not like to be touched early in the process.
Rule 6
Close the Deal by asking them when you can see them again with a nice alternative close. ‘ So when will I see you again, through the week or is the weekend a best time’
Hey remember, if they ain’t interested then there are plenty of more singles out there waiting for you.

Good Luck!!!

Flirting tips

Women know what flirting is, and they react differently to flirting communication than they do to social communication. If you understand flirting, you can have conversations with the opposite sex and have them feeling attracted to you. If you don’t get flirting and how it works, then you will either have to become famous or be absolutely loaded to be successful with girls.

Learn how to flirt well, then do this from the start in your interactions with women to start the correct tone. Think of flirting like that of playing a game. If you start talking to a single girl and say "Hi, you're nice. You probably have a fella, right?" in a normal tone of voice, you're not flirting. On the other hand, if you say "Hi, I realize that you're probably very shy due to the fact you get no attention from men... so I thought I'd come over here and pay you some attention..." it's obvious that you're not being serious. This is flirting. By the way, flirting is not simply telling a girl jokes, or trying to be "cute". One of the concepts is Cocky yet Funny which is simply an excellent way of flirting and creating sexual tension with a specific kind of humour. It's so amazing to me how some men don't want to come across as gimps. It's obvious to me that they just don’t get it. So let me explain this in a different way...

If you know how to speak the right way, women will respond to you from the beginning with sexual interest and attraction. When you know how to incorporate flirting in a Cocky yet Funny way, a form of adult verbal play, then you reach into a woman's mind, and cause her to go into a type of emotional state. One of the keys to effective flirting is to "get it". In other words, you have to actually practice so you get a "feel" for how it works.

I think a lot of men give up when they try a cute line or technique and a woman responds by saying "No thanks." Instead of just continuing to practice more they take it personally and decide to throw in the towel. But take my word for it... once you learn how to flirt effectively and communicate in the language of adult play you not believe how well women respond to you.

Here's one of my favourite topics to use when flirting, the topic is getting engaged and being in a relationship... Bare in mind, I may have a conversation like this one with a woman that I just met five minutes earlier...
Her: "I work in an office, and I get paid well"
Me: "Excellent. I like that in a woman. Want to get engaged? We could buy the ring now. I need a woman with money."
Her: <Laughter> "OK, that sounds like a plan"
Me: "Mind you... do you think you can support the both of us on your income? I really want to be looked after... you know, keep an eye on the TV etc."
Her: "Oh, no... I would not support you."
Me: "Then the engagements off. It's over between us.”
Her: <Laughter> "You can't break up with me! I'm not even your girlfriend."
Me: "That's all the more reason."

...do you get what's going on here?

I'm taking a normal conversation topic about her job and her income and redirecting the conversation in a flirtatious, Cocky & Funny way hence creating a fun mood and sexual tension (by suggesting engagement and breaking up over her not supporting me.)

If this doesn't make sense to you, then take that as a sign that you need to practice more. Try it with maybe a waitress, bar maid or fellow worker. When you ask for something and she says "I'm sorry, we don't have that on the menu", just say "OK, our relationship isn't working out... I'm going to have to break up with you." In fact, you can say this in just about any situation when a woman is saying something that you don't like, and it's funny.
When you communicate like this, you're flirting and you're initiating a different kind of communication. And as soon as the woman you're talking to "engages" you in this kind of dialogue, the Let the games begin! There are many ways to flirt, if a woman looks at you and raises one eyebrow, look back at her and do the same... only exaggerate it.
Remember, women can tell straight away whether you're <a href="http://www.jaydiocity.co.uk">flirting</a> with them or not. If you are, and you're doing it in a subtle and charming way then you'll get amazing results.

Choosing the best username

What’s in a name? Other than your profile picture, your username is the first thing other members see. Here’s a quick and easy way to choose a username that will be unique and fun. You want a catchy and memorable phrase.

Step One: Make a List of Adjectives

Make a list of adjectives that describe you or things that you like or admire.

For example, here’s a list:

• sexy
• flirty
• fun
• crazy
• strong
• brainy
• clever
• intelligent
• caring
• clumsy
• lovable
• sweet
• brown
• green
• chocolate
• cheesy

Step Two: Make A List of Nouns

These should be things that you do, like, eat, watch, anything!

For example, here’s a list:

• guitar
• sax
• steak
• dance
• dog
• dragon
• ibiza
• rain
• riding
• bigmac
• cheeseburger
• Firefly
• Serenity
• wine
• sleep

Step Three: Combine!

• SexySax
• ChocolateRain
• CleverRiding
• LovableDog

Good Luck...

K xxx

Mothers Day

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